There are many essential oils that can spark romance, enhance libido, and make your valentine’s day (or any day) especially romantic.

This article covers 3 ways you can use essential oils to spice things up this valentines day, and all year round

  1. Individual essential oils and their benefits,
  2. Diffuser blends you can use for Valentine’s Day and for Intimacy year round,
  3. Roller Ball / Massage Oils you can make.

Essential Oils for Valentine’s Day Romance and Intimacy

There are many essential oils out there but how do you know which oils you can use for love and intimacy? Here is a list of a few that have aphrodisiac effects.

Neroli essential oil

neroli essential oil can boost libido and is perfect for valentine's day

Neroli Essential Oiluplifts your mood, reduces anxious feelings and encourages feelings of love.  When you are relaxed and not stressed, you are more likely to feel more romantic.

For potent aphrodisiac effects, apply across the top of your chest.

Jasmine Essential Oil

Jasmine essential oil is perfect for romance and valentine's day

Jasmine essential oil uplifts mood, reduces the appearance of skin imperfections and is known for it’s ability to stir feelings of euphoria and Romance.

For potent aphrodisiac effects, apply across the top of your chest.

Passion Essential Oil Blend

Passion essential oil is perfect for romance and valentine's day

Passion essential oil blend ignites feelings of excitement, passion, and joy.  It counteracts negative feelings of boredom and disinterest.

For potent aphrodisiac effects, apply to wrists, back of neck, and pulse points.

Ylang Ylang essential oil

Ylang Ylang essential oil is perfect for romance and valentine's day

Ylang Ylang essential oil provides a calming, positive environment.  It has been used for centuries in religious and wedding ceremonies.

For potent aphrodisiac effects, apply to wrists, back of neck, and pulse points.

Patchouli Essential Oil

Patchouli essential oil is perfect for romance and valentine's day

Patchouli essential oil reduces the appearance of blemishes, promotes a smooth, glowing complexion, and creates a grounding, balancing atmosphere.

For potent aphrodisiac effects, apply to wrists, back of neck and pulse points.

Sandalwood Essential Oil

Valentines essental oils for intimacy and romance sandalwood

Sandalwood Essential oil reduces the appearance of imperfections, creates a positive atmosphere, and is frequently used in meditation for it’s grounding aroma.

For potent aphrodisiac effects, combine with carrier oil for an intimacy enhancing massage blend.

Whisper Essential Oil Blend

Whisper essential oil is perfect for romance and valentine's day

Whisper essential oil blend entices and intrigues the senses.  Whisper combines with each individual’s unique chemistry to create a beautiful, unique and personal fragrance.

For potent aphrodisiac effects, apply to wrists, back of neck, and pulse points.

Diffuser Blends for Valentine’s Day Romance and Intimacy

Fill your bedroom with a romantic essential oil diffuser blend to help make Valentine’s day a little more romantic.

Sweet Passion

Valentines essental oils for intimacy and romance sweet passion

2 drops Frankincense

2 drops Lime

2 drops Eucalyptus

Enhanced Romance

Valentines essental oils for intimacy and romance blend enhanced romance

2 drops Geranium

1 drop Lime

2 drops Sandalwood

Fan the Flame

Valentines essental oils for intimacy and romance fan the flame

2 drops Ylang Ylang

2 drops Cinnamon

1 drop Cedarwood

In the Mood

Valentines essental oils for intimacy and romance in the mood

4 drops Ylang Ylang

2 drop Wild Orange

1 drop Sandalwood

1 drop Cedarwood

Roller balls and Massage Oil for Valentine’s Day 

Roller balls are a safe and convenient way to use essential oils topically on your skin. They are quick and easy to make.

Here’s a few roller ball recipes specifically designed for Love, Romance, and Intimacy.

You’ll need an empty rollerball I’m in love with all of the rollers from Whimsy and Wellness and they even have some special rollers for Valentines.

How to make a rollerball:

  1. Add the essential oils to your empty roller
  2. Top up the roller with your carrier oil of choice (fractionated coconut oil, jojoba are favorites).
  3. Pop in the rollerball top. Press down hard with the palm of your hand to make sure it’s in tightly.
  4. Gently shake your roller to mix up the contents.
  5. Apply as desired.

Love to Love You

Valentines essental oils for intimacy and romance love is in the air

2 drops Ylang Ylang

2 drops Geranium

3 drops Sandalwood

3 drops Clary Sage

Fractionated Coconut Oil

Libido Boost

Valentines essental oils for intimacy and romance libido boost

10 drops Clary Sage

10 drops Neroli

5 drops Jasmine

4 drops Cinnamon 

2 drops Ginger

carrier oil

Let’s Get it On

Valentines essental oils for intimacy and romance lets get it on

12 drops Sandalwood

8 drops Ylang Ylang

4 drops Clary Sage

4 drops Wild Orange

4 drops Cedarwood

2 drops Cinnamon

carrier oil

10ml roller

Love Potion Massage Blend

Valentines essental oils for intimacy and romance love potion

5 drops Jasmine

5 drops Bergamot

4 drops Ylang Ylang

2 drops Peppermint

2 drops Sandalwood

2 drops Rose Touch

2 drops Geranium

2 drops Wild Orange

combine with 2 oz carrier oil for an intimacy enhancing massage blend

Use these essential oils, diffuser blends, massage oil, and roller ball recipes to supercharge your Valentine’s Day!  Comment below with the romance and intimacy blend you are most excited to try!

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